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Fear doesn’t live here,
we ensure children are seen and heard

Children experiencing domestic and family violence (DFV) need more than short-term support. They need people who recognise the signs that DFV is happening. People who know how to talk to them in a safe way. People who can help families find stability, security and belonging in their homes.

Tap each card below to see how Barnardos helps turn fear into safety.

Fear doesn’t live here, we ensure children are seen and heard

Children experiencing domestic and family violence need more than short-term support. They need people who recognise the signs that DFV is happening. People who know how to talk to them in a safe way. People who can help families find stability, security and belonging in their homes.

Tap each card below to see how Barnardos helps turn fear into safety.

Domestic violence
thrives in silence.
We ensure children
are seen and heard

2 in 5 children have experienced
domestic and family violence.*

Many children don’t know who to
talk to about what is happening at
home and worry that they won’t
be believed.

Barnardos specialists know
how to talk to children safely,
helping them feel heard, supported
and connected to the right help.

A safe conversation can be the
doorway to a safe future.

We see the signs of
domestic violence
and help families
find safety

3 in 5 young children seeking
homelessness support have
experienced domestic violence.^

Domestic violence often leads
to unsafe and unstable living
situations for families.

Barnardos recognises
the signs early and provide
safety planning, service support
and practical help, to help families
navigate this difficult issue.

We provide support to
families and children
so
domestic violence doesn’t
shape their future

44% of children first experience
violence before the age of four.**

Domestic violence undermines
children’s confidence, without the
right support, it can shape their future.

We walk alongside children and
families for as long as is needed.
We support them with safety planning,
housing applications, school needs
and other day to day supplies.

Having an expert to guide you
through one of the most difficult
times makes all the difference.

Could you tell if a child is experiencing
domestic and family violence?

Many signs are subtle and often misunderstood. Take this quick quiz to test your
knowledge and learn how to support children who may be experiencing DFV.

TAKE THE 60-SECOND QUIZ

Could you tell if a child is experiencing
domestic and family violence?

Many signs are subtle and often misunderstood. Take this quick quiz to test your knowledge and learn how to support children who may be experiencing DFV.

 

TAKE THE 60-SECOND QUIZ

“We try to make all of our interactions with children be as meaningful as possible. We help them find their voice because some children don’t get asked about their experiences and they become invisible.”

– Jo Caseworker

Jo - Barnardos Australia Caseworker

*Australian Child Maltreatment Study 2023. ^Family, domestic and sexual violence, Australian Institute of Health and Welfare 2024-25. **Barnardos Australia Research Report 2022.

Download your free guide

Download your
free guide

Download practical tips with this free resource so you’ll know how
to respond to a child experiencing DFV.

Q1: If a child doesn't see or hear the violence in their home, it doesn't affect them.

Incorrect
Children who live with domestic and family violence are victim-survivors in their own right. DFV causes life-long damage to children even if they are not physically harmed.

Correct
DFV causes life-long damage to children even if they are not physically harmed.

Q2: Which of the following could be a sign a child is experiencing domestic and family violence?

This is just one sign. It is ‘all of the above’.
This is just one sign. It is ‘all of the above’.

This is just one sign. It is ‘all of the above’.

Correct
Children experiencing violence at home may show emotional, behavioural and social changes. Recognising these early signs can help them access support sooner. Small changes in behaviour can be important signals.

Q3: Domestic and family violence is only physical abuse.

Incorrect
Violence is not always visible.

Correct
Domestic and family violence can include emotional abuse, coercive control, financial control, threats and isolation, not just physical harm. Violence is not always visible.

Q4: If a child tells you they feel unsafe, what matters most?

The most important first step is listening and ensuring they are safe.

Correct
Children need to feel heard, believed and supported. The most important first step is listening and ensuring they are safe.

The most important first step is listening and ensuring they are safe.

The most important first step is listening and ensuring they are safe.

Q5: Many children experiencing domestic and family violence know they can get help.

Incorrect
Children often don’t know who to talk to or realise that help is available.

Correct
Many children live in fear and silence for long periods before speaking to someone they trust. They often don’t know who to talk to or realise that help is available.

Thank you for taking the quiz

Understanding domestic and family violence is the first step in protecting children and connecting them with support.

Ready to learn more? Scroll down to the bottom of our page to download your free guide with practical tips to help you respond to a child experiencing DFV.

WHAT WE SEE

We see beyond the sleepover in cars and understand the underlying issues.

After escaping family violence, a parent and their child have nowhere safe to stay and are
currently waiting for refuge accommodation.

We see beyond the sleepover in cars
and understand the underlying issues.

After escaping family violence, a
parent and their child have nowhere
safe to stay and are currently waiting
for refuge accommodation.

HOW BARNARDOS HELPS

We understand that families and children who have experienced domestic and family violence need more than just a safe place to stay. At Barnardos, we work closely with children to identify their unique needs and provide tailored support for each family member.   

Safe accommodation

Support with transitional accommodation

Safety Planning

Providing safety planning
so that families can leave violence for good

Counselling icon

Access to counselling services

Children who have survived domestic and family violence often experience long-term impacts into adulthood. Our caseworkers recognise the importance of specialist support to help them recover and thrive. 

HOW BARNARDOS HELPS

We understand that families and
children who have experienced domestic and family violence need more than just a safe place to stay.
At Barnardos, we work closely with children to
identify their unique
needs and provide tailored support
for each family member
.  
 


Support with transitional accommodation

Providing safety planning so that families can leave violence for good

Access to counselling services

Children who have survived domestic and family violence often experience long-term impacts into adulthood.
Our caseworkers
recognise the importance of specialist support to
help them recover and thrive.
 

You can help too! A simple gift today can support a child who has experienced
domestic and family violence to recover and heal
.

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